Yes, you read that correctly. Sidelines. As in I’m not going to be out and about frantically doing anything for the next month or so.
As a household without small children, or children of any age come to that, I don’t have the need to be running around checking off lists of Things To Do while keeping an eye on the household budget. If you do, you have my sympathy and encouragement.
Decades ago I discovered that the time between mid-November and mid-January were hectic enough with weather shifts (I live in a part of the country where that has impact) and adding to crowds who were frantically trying to buy everything including the gravel in the mall parking lots was not good for anything to do with me. Think mental and physical health, my meager budget, my sanity. So, I did something radical; I took myself out of the hurley burley and allowed folks who had the need or desire to be there enjoy themselves. Or not…
Recently I caught Nicole on the AllRecipes channel on YouTube prepare Thanksgiving dinner. I was exhausted just watching her! Granted, she had everything down to a science and it worked like a charm, but Good Grief…
I think that a potluck meal would be a great way to spread the work among folks who would be sitting around the table. It is easier on the budget and easier on the stress level. It is also a great way to try new things!
I think that settling in with some good coffee (or tea) a good coffee cake and something to watch that makes you happy is also a good way to enjoy the day.
I think as the days move forward toward the Big Day (or days) it is worth remembering why we are doing these things that have taken over our lives. The big question for me is: Am I enjoying myself or going through the motions?
So, for me, sitting on the sidelines is a great way to reduce stress, avoid injury, keep my budget in check and still spend time with folks I love.
Give yourself permission to do what you can, don’t do what you can’t, admit the difference, and allow others to do the same.
Sending you a hug or two, wishes for a quiet time to relax and reflect, and hope that you find joy in unexpected places.
Oh, and a reminder that this, too, will pass. 🙂